Worship > Fellowship
Think about it. How can I love my wife like Christ loved the church if I don't love Christ? I wouldn't know how to love without knowing him.
Why should she submit to me if I'm not worth submitting to? And yes I do believes wives should submit, but I also believe that won't be an issue as long as she's submitting to a godly husband. (Ephesians 5:22-25)
Our love for others must flow from our love and worship of God. 1 John 4:19-21 reads, "We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loved God must also love his brother."