I believe that worship, true worship of God, is more important than fellowship with other believers. Now I'm not saying that fellowship and relationships aren't important. But I am saying that if I'm not worshiping God, if I'm not right with him, then my other relationships can't be right. My fellowship and worship with him is more important than my relationship with my wife, my son, family, friends, my church, and my community.
Think about it. How can I love my wife like Christ loved the church if I don't love Christ? I wouldn't know how to love without knowing him.
Why should she submit to me if I'm not worth submitting to? And yes I do believes wives should submit, but I also believe that won't be an issue as long as she's submitting to a godly husband. (Ephesians 5:22-25)
Our love for others must flow from our love and worship of God. 1 John 4:19-21 reads, "We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loved God must also love his brother."