What gives you a rush? Makes you feel alive? Or if you're struggling right now, makes you feel like you can just make it through the day?
For some of us, it's the excitement of an extreme sport, a cup of coffee, doing something we love, or the look on a loved one's face when they're filled with joy. But for some struggling with substance abuse, it may be a drug. It may be something you can purchase legally (like alcohol, tobacco, or marijuana in some states), something you are prescribed (like painkillers), or something purchased illegally.
I believe that we have all had times where we felt like we needed a little 'pick me up,' a boost, or some liquid courage. Life is hard, I get it. Unfortunately, too many people try to endure the rigors of life by relying on alcohol and drugs. This reliance can lead to drunkenness and addiction. But God has a better plan for our lives, a different "substance" that should be our influence.
1. I don't have a problem with having an alcoholic drink. Before you get too carried away, drunkenness is wrong, period. If you have issues with alcohol, self-control, or the like then stay away - don't get too close to the edge. If you NEED alcohol, there is a problem and you need some help there. Some people argue that certain drinks are disgusting. Some are. But some are actually good, depending on your taste preferences. If your thoughts and actions begin to be impacted or influenced by alcohol (or your desire for it) then you have crossed that line of enjoying the flavor into being influenced. But one margarita, one Bailey's and coffee, will not condemn you to hell.
2. I don't smoke. Unfortunately, like many guys in high school, I smoked a few cigarettes and cigars with buddies back then to be cool. And man we thought we were LOL. But the coughing, the smell, the cost, just wasn't for me. Most of us are aware of the addictiveness of nicotine and the harmful effects of tobacco on our bodies. Which leads to the unpopular and curious question that I am left with - Given the unhealthy effects of alcohol and tobacco, and the addictiveness of nicotine, why are each of these legal and marijuana is not?
Hang on before going to far with that thought. In many states, it is illegal and Romans 13 commands us as Christians to be "subject to governing authorities." That means that if man's law is not contrary to God's law that we are to adhere to man's law. If that changes and it becomes legal in SC, then the stance on the law changes. Let me be clear here. Again, I don't smoke...anything. I honestly don't see me using it if becomes legal. But I also have not been able to get a clear answer on the previous question considering its sometimes helpful/healthy benefits. My personal opinion, is that right now there is more money and influence in politics from the tobacco and alcohol industry than from the marijuana industry. I don't see this being about the effects of the substance, but more about which lobbyist and which company has the money and influence.
So what should we be influenced by? Parents? Media? Friends? Others?
"Pay careful attention then, to how you live - not as unwise people but as wise - making the most of the time, because the days are evil. So don't be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. And don't get drunk with wine, which leads to reckless living, but be filled by the Spirit." - Ephesians 5:15-18
This has already gotten too long so here's the meat of these verses:
1. God wants us to live abundant lives and we can do so as we walk with Him.
2. Pay careful attention - Don't only see with your eyes but be perceptive with your mind as well. There are landmines all around us and sometimes it takes more than our sight to detect them.
3. Be wise by understanding God's will for your life. The Bible does not give us specifics like what to major in or what city to live in, but we can discover God's leading on matters of life like marriage, jobs, education, and relationships.
4. Understanding God's will involves both knowing and doing His will. We gain wisdom by asking for it (James 1:5).
5. Verse 18 is clear - don't get drunk with alcohol but be filled with the Holy Spirit. So if you see me out here, just know that yes officer, I am under the influence, of the Holy Spirit.
And I think most would agree that when someone is under the influence of drugs; alcohol, marijuana, meth, opioids, whatever it may be, that they are a much different person as well.
We must be aware of the areas impacted by whatever's influencing us:
Our Words: We are all easily influenced by friends. Whether it's to have 'just one drink' or to come to church. What you say to your friends carries a ton of weight. Be mindful.
Our Attitude: We are to have an attitude of gratitude in all things. This is possible when we are lead by the Spirit and see life from His perspective.
Our Actions: Be compassionate and understanding to the struggles of those around you. One day, you will likely need someone to be compassionate to you.
One of the best things about being a Christian is the amount of love, support, and help that you receive when you need it. This comes from the local body of believers, your church. It also comes from your faith family, whether kin by the DNA in your blood or the blood of Christ. And it also comes from the Holy Spirit who was sent to be our helper (John 14:26).
Then, seek God's direction daily through Bible reading and prayer. Ask him for understanding for the plan He has for your life.
Next, begin to lean on others. Find people who you want to be like and ask them to encourage you, pray for you, and hold you accountable.
The two best ways to help someone in overcoming addiction are through your prayers and presence.
For some of us, it's the excitement of an extreme sport, a cup of coffee, doing something we love, or the look on a loved one's face when they're filled with joy. But for some struggling with substance abuse, it may be a drug. It may be something you can purchase legally (like alcohol, tobacco, or marijuana in some states), something you are prescribed (like painkillers), or something purchased illegally.
I believe that we have all had times where we felt like we needed a little 'pick me up,' a boost, or some liquid courage. Life is hard, I get it. Unfortunately, too many people try to endure the rigors of life by relying on alcohol and drugs. This reliance can lead to drunkenness and addiction. But God has a better plan for our lives, a different "substance" that should be our influence.
Unpopular Opinion
Before I lose you and you say, "Oh here we go, some holy roller is going to lecture me about drinking and drugs again," let me share a little about my beliefs and where I'm coming from. Some of this may not be a popular opinion in the church and we can talk about if you would like. I'll try to keep this from getting too long here too.1. I don't have a problem with having an alcoholic drink. Before you get too carried away, drunkenness is wrong, period. If you have issues with alcohol, self-control, or the like then stay away - don't get too close to the edge. If you NEED alcohol, there is a problem and you need some help there. Some people argue that certain drinks are disgusting. Some are. But some are actually good, depending on your taste preferences. If your thoughts and actions begin to be impacted or influenced by alcohol (or your desire for it) then you have crossed that line of enjoying the flavor into being influenced. But one margarita, one Bailey's and coffee, will not condemn you to hell.
2. I don't smoke. Unfortunately, like many guys in high school, I smoked a few cigarettes and cigars with buddies back then to be cool. And man we thought we were LOL. But the coughing, the smell, the cost, just wasn't for me. Most of us are aware of the addictiveness of nicotine and the harmful effects of tobacco on our bodies. Which leads to the unpopular and curious question that I am left with - Given the unhealthy effects of alcohol and tobacco, and the addictiveness of nicotine, why are each of these legal and marijuana is not?
Hang on before going to far with that thought. In many states, it is illegal and Romans 13 commands us as Christians to be "subject to governing authorities." That means that if man's law is not contrary to God's law that we are to adhere to man's law. If that changes and it becomes legal in SC, then the stance on the law changes. Let me be clear here. Again, I don't smoke...anything. I honestly don't see me using it if becomes legal. But I also have not been able to get a clear answer on the previous question considering its sometimes helpful/healthy benefits. My personal opinion, is that right now there is more money and influence in politics from the tobacco and alcohol industry than from the marijuana industry. I don't see this being about the effects of the substance, but more about which lobbyist and which company has the money and influence.
What Should Influence Us
If you're still with me, thanks. I apologize for running down the rabbit hole.So what should we be influenced by? Parents? Media? Friends? Others?
"Pay careful attention then, to how you live - not as unwise people but as wise - making the most of the time, because the days are evil. So don't be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. And don't get drunk with wine, which leads to reckless living, but be filled by the Spirit." - Ephesians 5:15-18
This has already gotten too long so here's the meat of these verses:
1. God wants us to live abundant lives and we can do so as we walk with Him.
2. Pay careful attention - Don't only see with your eyes but be perceptive with your mind as well. There are landmines all around us and sometimes it takes more than our sight to detect them.
3. Be wise by understanding God's will for your life. The Bible does not give us specifics like what to major in or what city to live in, but we can discover God's leading on matters of life like marriage, jobs, education, and relationships.
4. Understanding God's will involves both knowing and doing His will. We gain wisdom by asking for it (James 1:5).
5. Verse 18 is clear - don't get drunk with alcohol but be filled with the Holy Spirit. So if you see me out here, just know that yes officer, I am under the influence, of the Holy Spirit.
What Happens Under the Influence
When I drank heavily, it influenced me. I was a different person. And now under the influence of the Holy Spirit, and through a continued walk with Christ, I am much more improved than from where I was.And I think most would agree that when someone is under the influence of drugs; alcohol, marijuana, meth, opioids, whatever it may be, that they are a much different person as well.
We must be aware of the areas impacted by whatever's influencing us:
Our Words: We are all easily influenced by friends. Whether it's to have 'just one drink' or to come to church. What you say to your friends carries a ton of weight. Be mindful.
Our Attitude: We are to have an attitude of gratitude in all things. This is possible when we are lead by the Spirit and see life from His perspective.
Our Actions: Be compassionate and understanding to the struggles of those around you. One day, you will likely need someone to be compassionate to you.
One of the best things about being a Christian is the amount of love, support, and help that you receive when you need it. This comes from the local body of believers, your church. It also comes from your faith family, whether kin by the DNA in your blood or the blood of Christ. And it also comes from the Holy Spirit who was sent to be our helper (John 14:26).
Escaping the Influence
If you have something that's been holding you captive, confess it to God. Lay that habit before Him and ask Him to remove the taste for it, the desire for it, the willingness to have that substance influence you.Then, seek God's direction daily through Bible reading and prayer. Ask him for understanding for the plan He has for your life.
Next, begin to lean on others. Find people who you want to be like and ask them to encourage you, pray for you, and hold you accountable.
The two best ways to help someone in overcoming addiction are through your prayers and presence.
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