Skip to main content

Funny Firsts

Have you ever noticed that some of the best things in life feel a little silly the first time we try them? This has hit me in several ways.

Some of my funny firsts include:

Iced Coffee: The 1st time I ever tasted it, Britt gave me a sip of hers, and it was really, really good. But one day when I hit a pothole and the ice in my cup shook, Thomas asked what that sound was - and I literally began laughing at myself when I had to say that it was the ice in my coffee. I still drink it pretty much daily and tell myself that I'm getting extra-hydrated from the ice!

Yoga: The 1st time I did it, I was embarrassed for myself, my yoga mat, and everybody else in the room (no, I did not wear yoga pants). But I do consistently tell people about the health benefits of yoga and stretch regularly.

Selfies: As you can see from the pic, I'm still not good at them. And I don't like taking pictures of myself for the main fact that they destroy the misconception I have in my mind of what I actually look like. But hey, they're fun and give people a real look at the person you are and allow them to put a face with a name and/or online persona.



Running: I had exercised with teams for years. But when I began to workout alone and went for a run with my little watch for the first time, I literally felt like every car that rode by was staring at me wondering why I was out there. But, running is most likely the reason I'm not 50 lbs. heavier than I am.

Earbuds: Yeah, I said it. Earbuds, earphones, headphones - I don't even know what to call them. I would be lying if I said that at first, I'd only use them in my car or in my house. I felt goofy wearing them. But I have enjoyed being able to listen to things without disturbing (or waking up) anyone around me.

Podcasts: Maybe it's just me, but I did feel a little silly when I first started listening to podcasts. I felt pretentious in essentially saying that the radio wasn't good enough for me anymore. I'm not a music person, it just doesn't phase me much one way or the other. I do better staying awake (while driving) or getting focused by listening to spoken words through sermons and motivational speeches.

New Places: One of the toughest for me is going somewhere new. That anxiety about not knowing where to park, which way to walk in, who to talk to, where to sit, etc. But the only way we expand our world (and our network) is to get out of comfort zone and explore new places. The new place one is tough. I've been working out for years, but I can't describe the nervousness I felt when I went to a different gym a few years ago. I was comfortable with the attire and the activity, but the simple change of environment had me messed up. If someone new comes to where you are, do your best to make them feel welcome. And be willing to explore new places, get lost, get confused, and get corrected. That new place or new connection could be life-changing.

What are some of your funny firsts? Something that you knew was good long-term but was a little awkward getting started?

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

2020 is Hindsight...Finally!

Wow, what a year! 2020 could literally be an entire decade, maybe more, of history, change, and lessons rolled up into these twelve months. While many aspects of 2020 were kind of sucky and we would like to forget them, it will certainly be a year to remember. And it will be enlightening when this year is looked back on in 10, 25, or 50 years to be discussed. I wonder if we'll seem like geniuses or idiots? Probably both to some extent! While there is so much that I could consider and analyze about this year, I'll try to break some of it down into four dimensions - Physical, Spiritual, Mental, and Social/Emotional. These are events and happenings from my world and perspective and I'm trying to be open in sharing and would love to hear from others on events you found most transforming. Physical When COVID cause gyms to close, that messed me up. Our town and state were late to be hit with severe cases and therefore later than many across the country to close up shop. I'm n...

Worship > Fellowship

I believe that worship, true worship of God, is more important than fellowship with other believers.  Now I'm not saying that fellowship and relationships aren't important.  But I am saying that if I'm not worshiping God, if I'm not right with him, then my other relationships can't be right.  My fellowship and worship with him is more important than my relationship with my wife, my son, family, friends, my church, and my community.  Think about it.  How can I love my wife like Christ loved the church if I don't love Christ?  I wouldn't know how to love without knowing him.  Why should she submit to me if I'm not worth submitting to?  And yes I do believes wives should submit, but I also believe that won't be an issue as long as she's submitting to a godly husband.  (Ephesians 5:22-25) Our love for others must flow from our love and worship of God.  1 John 4:19-21 reads, "We love because he first loved us.  If anyone says,...

The Power of Our Tongue

"How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire!  And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness.  The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell." - James 3:6 When we think of fire, we may think of a small campfire to roast marshmallows, a wood stove fire that is contained, or possibly a raging inferno that is destroying a building or forest.  James here is comparing our tongue to a fire.  The sinful words that come out of our mouths have the power to destroy everything they touch, and like a fire can do so rapidly or slowly, but with dramatic effect either way.  We should also be mindful of our speech because even if it's not directly what we say, the permeating "smoke" from our speech can destroy the things around us as well.  Often times even when we are filled with good and honorable actions, our tongue can stain, or contaminate, our body throug...